This is another good topic from the list of questions that I’ve been getting concerning the various concerns practitioners have of the Craft. My opinion on the subject of anyone not being able to say “no” to someone who wants you to perform a “service” (paid or unpaid) that you do not want to do, is to develop a code of ethics or guideline rules for people to follow stating clearly what you will and will no do for them. This way it prevents people from trying to use you nor as you to do things you do not agree with.